Noelle Sterne
Challenges in Writing Your Dissertation
Coping with the Emotional, Interpersonal, and Spiritual Struggles
Noelle Sterne
Challenges in Writing Your Dissertation
Coping with the Emotional, Interpersonal, and Spiritual Struggles
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In Challenges in Writing Your Dissertation: Coping With the Emotional, Interpersonal, and Spiritual Struggles, Noelle Sterne, Ph.D., demystifies the dissertation-writing process. She offers practical strategies so this often overwhelming process becomes less intimidating to doctoral candidates. Sterne addresses common fears and hurdles students face when writing and defending their dissertations and provides inspiration and encouragement during this long stressful time. This important resource is a must-read for doctoral candidates.
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In Challenges in Writing Your Dissertation: Coping With the Emotional, Interpersonal, and Spiritual Struggles, Noelle Sterne, Ph.D., demystifies the dissertation-writing process. She offers practical strategies so this often overwhelming process becomes less intimidating to doctoral candidates. Sterne addresses common fears and hurdles students face when writing and defending their dissertations and provides inspiration and encouragement during this long stressful time. This important resource is a must-read for doctoral candidates.
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- Verlag: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
- Seitenzahl: 226
- Erscheinungstermin: 25. September 2015
- Englisch
- Abmessung: 235mm x 157mm x 18mm
- Gewicht: 524g
- ISBN-13: 9781475815030
- ISBN-10: 1475815034
- Artikelnr.: 42750948
- Herstellerkennzeichnung
- Books on Demand GmbH
- In de Tarpen 42
- 22848 Norderstedt
- info@bod.de
- 040 53433511
- Verlag: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
- Seitenzahl: 226
- Erscheinungstermin: 25. September 2015
- Englisch
- Abmessung: 235mm x 157mm x 18mm
- Gewicht: 524g
- ISBN-13: 9781475815030
- ISBN-10: 1475815034
- Artikelnr.: 42750948
- Herstellerkennzeichnung
- Books on Demand GmbH
- In de Tarpen 42
- 22848 Norderstedt
- info@bod.de
- 040 53433511
By Noelle Sterne
Permissions Praise for Challenges in Writing Your Dissertation Foreword: By
Professor Irma M. Barron Acknowledgments Illustration: The Ideal
Dissertation Introduction: How I Became an Academic Nag ·Why This Book
·What's Here ·My Methods and Techniques ·Why Me? oI Never Left School oFrom
Professor to Typist oTo Coach and Editor oDisclosure: My Writing (Mostly
Nonacademic) ·A Word About the Spiritual ·"Academic Nag" PART ONE: SNEAKING
UP ON THE DISSERTATION Chapter 1. The Decision: Your Dream, Your Life ·How
Is the Degree Part of Your Life's Dream? ·What Will the Degree Do for You?
·Visualize Your Dream ·Affirmations for Strengthening Your Life Dream ·As
They Say, Meditate, Don't Medicate 2. BIG Changes ·It's Not Just College
Anymore ·How Ready Are You to Change Your Lifestyle? oNo Structure oNo
Leisure ·It's Your Time ·Declare and Feel Your Readiness PART TWO: REALLY
DOING IT 3. Priorities and Promises to Yourself ·Your Inner Mentor:
Listening for Answers ·Rethink Your Priorities ·Find the Holes in Your
Schedule ·Keep Your Promises to Yourself ·Your Later List ·Affirm Your
Right Time and Timing 4. Enroll Your Higher Self ·Hello, Light Being!
·Trust the Process ·Three Puzzling and Powerful Reinforcing Laws oThe Law
of Least Effort oThe Law of Intention and Desire oThe Law of Detachment
·Recognize and Accept Your Power ·A Few Higher Self Affirmations 5.
Starting the Work: Positive Patient Persevering ·Listen for the Topic
That's Right for You oTopic Considerations oRight Topic Considerations
·You're the Scholar in Shining Armor ·Muster Your Courage for the Proposal
oWhat's Your Problem? oCourageous Affirmations ·You Don't Have to Walk a
Straight (Out)Line ·Tricks to Tease and Ease Yourself into It ·Writing
Doesn't Have to Be Torture: Proper Style and Semipleasant Process ·Settle
In: You Deserve It 6. Sticking With It: Temptations and Tonics
·Dissertation Interruptus ·Death by Rationale ·Resisting the Extension
Siren ·Getting Sick . . . of It All ·Fear of Finishing ·Discipline Is a
Choice ·Continuing the Work: Your Wayward Outline ·If You're Concerned
About Your Brain ·Reasonable Breaks and Balance oWorking Questions
oBalanced Breaks ·Affirmations for Sticking With It PART THREE: YOUR NEAR,
DEAR, AND DESPAIRING SIGNIFICANT OTHERS 7. Orient the Important Others in
Your Life ·Stranger in a Strange Graduate School Culture ·Family and
Friends: Starting Off Wrong ·Starting Off Right oSelfish? oSaying No
·Sacrifices and Rewards: Short-Term, Mid-Term, Interminable-Term oEducate
Them oBribe Them 8. Family: Choruses of Complaints, Songs of Support
·Partners: "I Didn't Bargain for This" or "I Never See You Anymore" ·Kids:
"We Never See You Anymore" ·Involve Them: Share What You're Doing
oInvolving Partners oInvolving Kids ·Special Dates With Partners and Kids
oDates With Partners oDates With Kids ·Other Relatives: "We Never See You
Anymore" oEducate and Bribe, Again oSabotage, Unconscious or Not ·Holiday
Strategies ·Toxic Volleys and Tough Questions oYour Neutralizing Responses
oHard Questions and Your Brilliant Answers ·Troubled Waters: Fights,
Separation, Divorce ·See Them Whole oSend Love Ahead oSee Them Supportive
9. Friends: Are They for You or Against You? ·"Come On-It's Only a Quick
Lunch": Just Say Not Now ·Community Involvement and Volunteer Activities:
Just Say Later ·Handle Jealousies and Putdowns ·Let Go of the Crazymakers
·Those Questions Again: "Aren't You Done Yet?" ·Assure Them You Still Love
Them ·Know and Believe They Are For and With You 10. Make Peace and Time
With Your Employer and Work Colleagues ·Express Your Gratitude and Explain,
Explain ·Point Out How Your Degree Benefits the Company ·Negotiate What
Works for Both of You ·Superior Jealousies oRecognize Toxicity oToxicity
Antidotes ·Work Colleagues' Envy ·Affirm, Visualize, and Project Employment
Peace PART FOUR: GOOD UNIVERSITY COPS AND BAD 11. Your Dissertation
Committee: The Best/Worst Friends You'll Ever Have \ ·Are Professors Really
Human? ·Excruciating or Exceptional? ·Who Can You Work With and How Do You
Know? oGather Plenty of Information oAsk Questions About the Chair ·Listen
Inside: Gut and Guidance oAsk Questions of Yourself oHow Do You Feel?
·Design and See Your Perfect Committee 12. Dancing With the Committee
·Whose Topic? ·Buddying Up or Keeping Too Distant oChums oStrangers oThe
Ideal Balance ·Playing Humble Student and Keeping Your Self-Respect
oSwallow Your Pride oRaise Your Head ·When You're Older Than Your
Professors ·The Infinite Loop of Revisions ·Appealing to Higher Authorities
oOn the Ground oIn Your Head ·Your Higher Self and Theirs oPsychologically
Speaking oSpiritually Speaking 13. University Support: You've Got More
Friends Than You Think ·Fellow Students as Mentors ·What Can You Learn From
Learning Centers? ·You Can Speak to the Geeks in the Computer Lab ·Add to
Your Team: Statisticians and Researchers oStatisticians oResearchers
·Librarians Love You, Secretaries Stand By You oLibrarians oSecretaries
·Consider Coaches and Editors oCoaches oEditors ·Old Course Professors
Don't Have to Fade Away ·Picture the Perfect University Friends You Need
PART FIVE: GRADUATION: IT'S ONLY A WALK AWAY 14. Am I Really Almost Done?
·Rehearse Your Perfect Defense ·Yet Another Faculty Review ·Master the Red
Tape ·How to Enjoy Your Own Graduation ·Avoid Post-Parting Depression (PPD)
15.Waking to Your Dream ·The Most Dangerous Time . . . ·Envision Your
Future, Take the Steps ·Peek at Your Long-Neglected Later List ·Reenter
Your Family's Atmosphere ·Plan Your Payoffs oPositions oPublications
·Celebrate Your Professional and Personal Growth With Gratitude Conclusion:
Why I'm Still an Academic Nag References Selected Resources A Short
Glossary of Important Acronyms About the Author
Professor Irma M. Barron Acknowledgments Illustration: The Ideal
Dissertation Introduction: How I Became an Academic Nag ·Why This Book
·What's Here ·My Methods and Techniques ·Why Me? oI Never Left School oFrom
Professor to Typist oTo Coach and Editor oDisclosure: My Writing (Mostly
Nonacademic) ·A Word About the Spiritual ·"Academic Nag" PART ONE: SNEAKING
UP ON THE DISSERTATION Chapter 1. The Decision: Your Dream, Your Life ·How
Is the Degree Part of Your Life's Dream? ·What Will the Degree Do for You?
·Visualize Your Dream ·Affirmations for Strengthening Your Life Dream ·As
They Say, Meditate, Don't Medicate 2. BIG Changes ·It's Not Just College
Anymore ·How Ready Are You to Change Your Lifestyle? oNo Structure oNo
Leisure ·It's Your Time ·Declare and Feel Your Readiness PART TWO: REALLY
DOING IT 3. Priorities and Promises to Yourself ·Your Inner Mentor:
Listening for Answers ·Rethink Your Priorities ·Find the Holes in Your
Schedule ·Keep Your Promises to Yourself ·Your Later List ·Affirm Your
Right Time and Timing 4. Enroll Your Higher Self ·Hello, Light Being!
·Trust the Process ·Three Puzzling and Powerful Reinforcing Laws oThe Law
of Least Effort oThe Law of Intention and Desire oThe Law of Detachment
·Recognize and Accept Your Power ·A Few Higher Self Affirmations 5.
Starting the Work: Positive Patient Persevering ·Listen for the Topic
That's Right for You oTopic Considerations oRight Topic Considerations
·You're the Scholar in Shining Armor ·Muster Your Courage for the Proposal
oWhat's Your Problem? oCourageous Affirmations ·You Don't Have to Walk a
Straight (Out)Line ·Tricks to Tease and Ease Yourself into It ·Writing
Doesn't Have to Be Torture: Proper Style and Semipleasant Process ·Settle
In: You Deserve It 6. Sticking With It: Temptations and Tonics
·Dissertation Interruptus ·Death by Rationale ·Resisting the Extension
Siren ·Getting Sick . . . of It All ·Fear of Finishing ·Discipline Is a
Choice ·Continuing the Work: Your Wayward Outline ·If You're Concerned
About Your Brain ·Reasonable Breaks and Balance oWorking Questions
oBalanced Breaks ·Affirmations for Sticking With It PART THREE: YOUR NEAR,
DEAR, AND DESPAIRING SIGNIFICANT OTHERS 7. Orient the Important Others in
Your Life ·Stranger in a Strange Graduate School Culture ·Family and
Friends: Starting Off Wrong ·Starting Off Right oSelfish? oSaying No
·Sacrifices and Rewards: Short-Term, Mid-Term, Interminable-Term oEducate
Them oBribe Them 8. Family: Choruses of Complaints, Songs of Support
·Partners: "I Didn't Bargain for This" or "I Never See You Anymore" ·Kids:
"We Never See You Anymore" ·Involve Them: Share What You're Doing
oInvolving Partners oInvolving Kids ·Special Dates With Partners and Kids
oDates With Partners oDates With Kids ·Other Relatives: "We Never See You
Anymore" oEducate and Bribe, Again oSabotage, Unconscious or Not ·Holiday
Strategies ·Toxic Volleys and Tough Questions oYour Neutralizing Responses
oHard Questions and Your Brilliant Answers ·Troubled Waters: Fights,
Separation, Divorce ·See Them Whole oSend Love Ahead oSee Them Supportive
9. Friends: Are They for You or Against You? ·"Come On-It's Only a Quick
Lunch": Just Say Not Now ·Community Involvement and Volunteer Activities:
Just Say Later ·Handle Jealousies and Putdowns ·Let Go of the Crazymakers
·Those Questions Again: "Aren't You Done Yet?" ·Assure Them You Still Love
Them ·Know and Believe They Are For and With You 10. Make Peace and Time
With Your Employer and Work Colleagues ·Express Your Gratitude and Explain,
Explain ·Point Out How Your Degree Benefits the Company ·Negotiate What
Works for Both of You ·Superior Jealousies oRecognize Toxicity oToxicity
Antidotes ·Work Colleagues' Envy ·Affirm, Visualize, and Project Employment
Peace PART FOUR: GOOD UNIVERSITY COPS AND BAD 11. Your Dissertation
Committee: The Best/Worst Friends You'll Ever Have \ ·Are Professors Really
Human? ·Excruciating or Exceptional? ·Who Can You Work With and How Do You
Know? oGather Plenty of Information oAsk Questions About the Chair ·Listen
Inside: Gut and Guidance oAsk Questions of Yourself oHow Do You Feel?
·Design and See Your Perfect Committee 12. Dancing With the Committee
·Whose Topic? ·Buddying Up or Keeping Too Distant oChums oStrangers oThe
Ideal Balance ·Playing Humble Student and Keeping Your Self-Respect
oSwallow Your Pride oRaise Your Head ·When You're Older Than Your
Professors ·The Infinite Loop of Revisions ·Appealing to Higher Authorities
oOn the Ground oIn Your Head ·Your Higher Self and Theirs oPsychologically
Speaking oSpiritually Speaking 13. University Support: You've Got More
Friends Than You Think ·Fellow Students as Mentors ·What Can You Learn From
Learning Centers? ·You Can Speak to the Geeks in the Computer Lab ·Add to
Your Team: Statisticians and Researchers oStatisticians oResearchers
·Librarians Love You, Secretaries Stand By You oLibrarians oSecretaries
·Consider Coaches and Editors oCoaches oEditors ·Old Course Professors
Don't Have to Fade Away ·Picture the Perfect University Friends You Need
PART FIVE: GRADUATION: IT'S ONLY A WALK AWAY 14. Am I Really Almost Done?
·Rehearse Your Perfect Defense ·Yet Another Faculty Review ·Master the Red
Tape ·How to Enjoy Your Own Graduation ·Avoid Post-Parting Depression (PPD)
15.Waking to Your Dream ·The Most Dangerous Time . . . ·Envision Your
Future, Take the Steps ·Peek at Your Long-Neglected Later List ·Reenter
Your Family's Atmosphere ·Plan Your Payoffs oPositions oPublications
·Celebrate Your Professional and Personal Growth With Gratitude Conclusion:
Why I'm Still an Academic Nag References Selected Resources A Short
Glossary of Important Acronyms About the Author
Permissions Praise for Challenges in Writing Your Dissertation Foreword: By
Professor Irma M. Barron Acknowledgments Illustration: The Ideal
Dissertation Introduction: How I Became an Academic Nag ·Why This Book
·What's Here ·My Methods and Techniques ·Why Me? oI Never Left School oFrom
Professor to Typist oTo Coach and Editor oDisclosure: My Writing (Mostly
Nonacademic) ·A Word About the Spiritual ·"Academic Nag" PART ONE: SNEAKING
UP ON THE DISSERTATION Chapter 1. The Decision: Your Dream, Your Life ·How
Is the Degree Part of Your Life's Dream? ·What Will the Degree Do for You?
·Visualize Your Dream ·Affirmations for Strengthening Your Life Dream ·As
They Say, Meditate, Don't Medicate 2. BIG Changes ·It's Not Just College
Anymore ·How Ready Are You to Change Your Lifestyle? oNo Structure oNo
Leisure ·It's Your Time ·Declare and Feel Your Readiness PART TWO: REALLY
DOING IT 3. Priorities and Promises to Yourself ·Your Inner Mentor:
Listening for Answers ·Rethink Your Priorities ·Find the Holes in Your
Schedule ·Keep Your Promises to Yourself ·Your Later List ·Affirm Your
Right Time and Timing 4. Enroll Your Higher Self ·Hello, Light Being!
·Trust the Process ·Three Puzzling and Powerful Reinforcing Laws oThe Law
of Least Effort oThe Law of Intention and Desire oThe Law of Detachment
·Recognize and Accept Your Power ·A Few Higher Self Affirmations 5.
Starting the Work: Positive Patient Persevering ·Listen for the Topic
That's Right for You oTopic Considerations oRight Topic Considerations
·You're the Scholar in Shining Armor ·Muster Your Courage for the Proposal
oWhat's Your Problem? oCourageous Affirmations ·You Don't Have to Walk a
Straight (Out)Line ·Tricks to Tease and Ease Yourself into It ·Writing
Doesn't Have to Be Torture: Proper Style and Semipleasant Process ·Settle
In: You Deserve It 6. Sticking With It: Temptations and Tonics
·Dissertation Interruptus ·Death by Rationale ·Resisting the Extension
Siren ·Getting Sick . . . of It All ·Fear of Finishing ·Discipline Is a
Choice ·Continuing the Work: Your Wayward Outline ·If You're Concerned
About Your Brain ·Reasonable Breaks and Balance oWorking Questions
oBalanced Breaks ·Affirmations for Sticking With It PART THREE: YOUR NEAR,
DEAR, AND DESPAIRING SIGNIFICANT OTHERS 7. Orient the Important Others in
Your Life ·Stranger in a Strange Graduate School Culture ·Family and
Friends: Starting Off Wrong ·Starting Off Right oSelfish? oSaying No
·Sacrifices and Rewards: Short-Term, Mid-Term, Interminable-Term oEducate
Them oBribe Them 8. Family: Choruses of Complaints, Songs of Support
·Partners: "I Didn't Bargain for This" or "I Never See You Anymore" ·Kids:
"We Never See You Anymore" ·Involve Them: Share What You're Doing
oInvolving Partners oInvolving Kids ·Special Dates With Partners and Kids
oDates With Partners oDates With Kids ·Other Relatives: "We Never See You
Anymore" oEducate and Bribe, Again oSabotage, Unconscious or Not ·Holiday
Strategies ·Toxic Volleys and Tough Questions oYour Neutralizing Responses
oHard Questions and Your Brilliant Answers ·Troubled Waters: Fights,
Separation, Divorce ·See Them Whole oSend Love Ahead oSee Them Supportive
9. Friends: Are They for You or Against You? ·"Come On-It's Only a Quick
Lunch": Just Say Not Now ·Community Involvement and Volunteer Activities:
Just Say Later ·Handle Jealousies and Putdowns ·Let Go of the Crazymakers
·Those Questions Again: "Aren't You Done Yet?" ·Assure Them You Still Love
Them ·Know and Believe They Are For and With You 10. Make Peace and Time
With Your Employer and Work Colleagues ·Express Your Gratitude and Explain,
Explain ·Point Out How Your Degree Benefits the Company ·Negotiate What
Works for Both of You ·Superior Jealousies oRecognize Toxicity oToxicity
Antidotes ·Work Colleagues' Envy ·Affirm, Visualize, and Project Employment
Peace PART FOUR: GOOD UNIVERSITY COPS AND BAD 11. Your Dissertation
Committee: The Best/Worst Friends You'll Ever Have \ ·Are Professors Really
Human? ·Excruciating or Exceptional? ·Who Can You Work With and How Do You
Know? oGather Plenty of Information oAsk Questions About the Chair ·Listen
Inside: Gut and Guidance oAsk Questions of Yourself oHow Do You Feel?
·Design and See Your Perfect Committee 12. Dancing With the Committee
·Whose Topic? ·Buddying Up or Keeping Too Distant oChums oStrangers oThe
Ideal Balance ·Playing Humble Student and Keeping Your Self-Respect
oSwallow Your Pride oRaise Your Head ·When You're Older Than Your
Professors ·The Infinite Loop of Revisions ·Appealing to Higher Authorities
oOn the Ground oIn Your Head ·Your Higher Self and Theirs oPsychologically
Speaking oSpiritually Speaking 13. University Support: You've Got More
Friends Than You Think ·Fellow Students as Mentors ·What Can You Learn From
Learning Centers? ·You Can Speak to the Geeks in the Computer Lab ·Add to
Your Team: Statisticians and Researchers oStatisticians oResearchers
·Librarians Love You, Secretaries Stand By You oLibrarians oSecretaries
·Consider Coaches and Editors oCoaches oEditors ·Old Course Professors
Don't Have to Fade Away ·Picture the Perfect University Friends You Need
PART FIVE: GRADUATION: IT'S ONLY A WALK AWAY 14. Am I Really Almost Done?
·Rehearse Your Perfect Defense ·Yet Another Faculty Review ·Master the Red
Tape ·How to Enjoy Your Own Graduation ·Avoid Post-Parting Depression (PPD)
15.Waking to Your Dream ·The Most Dangerous Time . . . ·Envision Your
Future, Take the Steps ·Peek at Your Long-Neglected Later List ·Reenter
Your Family's Atmosphere ·Plan Your Payoffs oPositions oPublications
·Celebrate Your Professional and Personal Growth With Gratitude Conclusion:
Why I'm Still an Academic Nag References Selected Resources A Short
Glossary of Important Acronyms About the Author
Professor Irma M. Barron Acknowledgments Illustration: The Ideal
Dissertation Introduction: How I Became an Academic Nag ·Why This Book
·What's Here ·My Methods and Techniques ·Why Me? oI Never Left School oFrom
Professor to Typist oTo Coach and Editor oDisclosure: My Writing (Mostly
Nonacademic) ·A Word About the Spiritual ·"Academic Nag" PART ONE: SNEAKING
UP ON THE DISSERTATION Chapter 1. The Decision: Your Dream, Your Life ·How
Is the Degree Part of Your Life's Dream? ·What Will the Degree Do for You?
·Visualize Your Dream ·Affirmations for Strengthening Your Life Dream ·As
They Say, Meditate, Don't Medicate 2. BIG Changes ·It's Not Just College
Anymore ·How Ready Are You to Change Your Lifestyle? oNo Structure oNo
Leisure ·It's Your Time ·Declare and Feel Your Readiness PART TWO: REALLY
DOING IT 3. Priorities and Promises to Yourself ·Your Inner Mentor:
Listening for Answers ·Rethink Your Priorities ·Find the Holes in Your
Schedule ·Keep Your Promises to Yourself ·Your Later List ·Affirm Your
Right Time and Timing 4. Enroll Your Higher Self ·Hello, Light Being!
·Trust the Process ·Three Puzzling and Powerful Reinforcing Laws oThe Law
of Least Effort oThe Law of Intention and Desire oThe Law of Detachment
·Recognize and Accept Your Power ·A Few Higher Self Affirmations 5.
Starting the Work: Positive Patient Persevering ·Listen for the Topic
That's Right for You oTopic Considerations oRight Topic Considerations
·You're the Scholar in Shining Armor ·Muster Your Courage for the Proposal
oWhat's Your Problem? oCourageous Affirmations ·You Don't Have to Walk a
Straight (Out)Line ·Tricks to Tease and Ease Yourself into It ·Writing
Doesn't Have to Be Torture: Proper Style and Semipleasant Process ·Settle
In: You Deserve It 6. Sticking With It: Temptations and Tonics
·Dissertation Interruptus ·Death by Rationale ·Resisting the Extension
Siren ·Getting Sick . . . of It All ·Fear of Finishing ·Discipline Is a
Choice ·Continuing the Work: Your Wayward Outline ·If You're Concerned
About Your Brain ·Reasonable Breaks and Balance oWorking Questions
oBalanced Breaks ·Affirmations for Sticking With It PART THREE: YOUR NEAR,
DEAR, AND DESPAIRING SIGNIFICANT OTHERS 7. Orient the Important Others in
Your Life ·Stranger in a Strange Graduate School Culture ·Family and
Friends: Starting Off Wrong ·Starting Off Right oSelfish? oSaying No
·Sacrifices and Rewards: Short-Term, Mid-Term, Interminable-Term oEducate
Them oBribe Them 8. Family: Choruses of Complaints, Songs of Support
·Partners: "I Didn't Bargain for This" or "I Never See You Anymore" ·Kids:
"We Never See You Anymore" ·Involve Them: Share What You're Doing
oInvolving Partners oInvolving Kids ·Special Dates With Partners and Kids
oDates With Partners oDates With Kids ·Other Relatives: "We Never See You
Anymore" oEducate and Bribe, Again oSabotage, Unconscious or Not ·Holiday
Strategies ·Toxic Volleys and Tough Questions oYour Neutralizing Responses
oHard Questions and Your Brilliant Answers ·Troubled Waters: Fights,
Separation, Divorce ·See Them Whole oSend Love Ahead oSee Them Supportive
9. Friends: Are They for You or Against You? ·"Come On-It's Only a Quick
Lunch": Just Say Not Now ·Community Involvement and Volunteer Activities:
Just Say Later ·Handle Jealousies and Putdowns ·Let Go of the Crazymakers
·Those Questions Again: "Aren't You Done Yet?" ·Assure Them You Still Love
Them ·Know and Believe They Are For and With You 10. Make Peace and Time
With Your Employer and Work Colleagues ·Express Your Gratitude and Explain,
Explain ·Point Out How Your Degree Benefits the Company ·Negotiate What
Works for Both of You ·Superior Jealousies oRecognize Toxicity oToxicity
Antidotes ·Work Colleagues' Envy ·Affirm, Visualize, and Project Employment
Peace PART FOUR: GOOD UNIVERSITY COPS AND BAD 11. Your Dissertation
Committee: The Best/Worst Friends You'll Ever Have \ ·Are Professors Really
Human? ·Excruciating or Exceptional? ·Who Can You Work With and How Do You
Know? oGather Plenty of Information oAsk Questions About the Chair ·Listen
Inside: Gut and Guidance oAsk Questions of Yourself oHow Do You Feel?
·Design and See Your Perfect Committee 12. Dancing With the Committee
·Whose Topic? ·Buddying Up or Keeping Too Distant oChums oStrangers oThe
Ideal Balance ·Playing Humble Student and Keeping Your Self-Respect
oSwallow Your Pride oRaise Your Head ·When You're Older Than Your
Professors ·The Infinite Loop of Revisions ·Appealing to Higher Authorities
oOn the Ground oIn Your Head ·Your Higher Self and Theirs oPsychologically
Speaking oSpiritually Speaking 13. University Support: You've Got More
Friends Than You Think ·Fellow Students as Mentors ·What Can You Learn From
Learning Centers? ·You Can Speak to the Geeks in the Computer Lab ·Add to
Your Team: Statisticians and Researchers oStatisticians oResearchers
·Librarians Love You, Secretaries Stand By You oLibrarians oSecretaries
·Consider Coaches and Editors oCoaches oEditors ·Old Course Professors
Don't Have to Fade Away ·Picture the Perfect University Friends You Need
PART FIVE: GRADUATION: IT'S ONLY A WALK AWAY 14. Am I Really Almost Done?
·Rehearse Your Perfect Defense ·Yet Another Faculty Review ·Master the Red
Tape ·How to Enjoy Your Own Graduation ·Avoid Post-Parting Depression (PPD)
15.Waking to Your Dream ·The Most Dangerous Time . . . ·Envision Your
Future, Take the Steps ·Peek at Your Long-Neglected Later List ·Reenter
Your Family's Atmosphere ·Plan Your Payoffs oPositions oPublications
·Celebrate Your Professional and Personal Growth With Gratitude Conclusion:
Why I'm Still an Academic Nag References Selected Resources A Short
Glossary of Important Acronyms About the Author