Gloria G. Brame

Come Hither

A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex

• Broschiertes Buch

Produktbeschreibung

How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked? -- Where can you find a good dominatrix? -- If your husband likes to wear your panties, does that mean he's gay? -- What really goes on at SM clubs? -- After you tie someone up, what exactly are you supposed to do? -- Is there such a thing as normal sex? If you've ever wondered about the ins and outs of bondage, spanking, or cross-dressing, look no further. Come Hither is a frank, friendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfying expressions of love and desire. The official resource guide for SM/fetish sex at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, Come Hither proves that a little kink can be a lot of fun.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: Fireside
• Seitenzahl: 338
• Erscheinungstermin: 1. Februar 2000
• Englisch
• Abmessung: 216mm x 140mm x 21mm
• Gewicht: 478g
• ISBN-13: 9780684854625
• ISBN-10: 0684854627
• Artikelnr.: 21330642

Autorenporträt

Dr. Gloria G. Brame is the lead author of Different Loving. A poet, journalist, and novelist, Brame has contributed articles to Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Working Woman, and Maxim. She can be contracted at Gloria-Brame.com.

Inhaltsangabe

Contents
CHAPTER ONE:
Introductory Kink
Kinky Confessional Basic Sexual Rights The Five Fallacies of Kinky Sex

CHAPTER TWO:
What's Your Kink Quotient?
Know Thy Kinky Self The Kink Quotient Quiz
CHAPTER THREE:
The Kink in All of Us
What's Normal? Are You Ready to Explore? "Ready...or Not?" Quiz Just
Say Maybe Eight Talking Points on Kinky Sex When Your Partner Is
Hostile: Dr. Brame's One-Question Wonder Quiz Four Steps to Kinky Romance
Fluffy Stuff How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Whip How to
Eroticize Anything Kink and God: The Spiritual Conflict
CHAPTER FOUR:
Getting Involved
Kink and the Single Pervert Getting Kinky Ye Olde Subtle Hintes A
Word About Timing Playing It Safe and Keeping It Consensual Where to
Go, Who to Do Before Stepping Out: A Short Guide to Social Etiquette
CHAPTER FIVE:
Erotic Bondage
Is Bondage Wrong? What Makes Bondage Sexy? The Five Top Reasons Why
People Love Bondage Prisoners of Love The Five Top Captivity Fantasies
Bondage Tips and Techniques Clamps, Cuffs, and Crosses: A Basic Guide
to Bondage Toys Fifteen Ways to Tease Your Tied-Up Lover Bondage Nevers

CHAPTER SIX:
Erotic Pain
How Can Anything That Hurts Be Good? Good Pain vs. Bad Pain How to Take
Your Lover from Pain to Pleasure: Five Tips Can I Be Submissive If I
Don't Like Pain? Safety, Safety, Safety and, in Case You Weren't
Listening, Safety! Top Torture Toys and Techniques
CHAPTER SEVEN:
Fetishes
What's a Fetish? A Fetish Is Alive! Fetish Tales A Catalogue of
Fetishes
CHAPTER EIGHT:
Role-Play and Lifestyle Relationships
Section One: Role-Play FAQ Section Two: Roundup of Roles and Role-Based
Relationships
CHAPTER NINE:
Transgenderism: The Second Self
What's in a Gender? Transvestite or Transsexual? Common Concerns of TVs
and Some Advice Quick Questions from Partners of TVs The Three Big
Headaches of Being a TV Tips on Teasing a TV
CHAPTER TEN:
Power Relationships
What Are Power Relationships? Should Parents in Lifestyle Power
Relationships Keep Their Kinks Hidden from Their Kids? Is Coming Out to
Your Relatives a Good Idea?
CHAPTER ELEVEN:
The View from the Top: Sexual Dominants
The Fictional Dominant vs. the Human Dominant A Note to Gay/Lesbian
Readers Key Qualities of Great Dominants What's in a Name? Typing Your
Topness Trust: The Key to Joyful Obedience Emotional Temperature-Taking
Myths That Need to Go Away Three Flavors of Femdoms Female Dominance:
Oxymoron or Redundancy? How to Punish a Masochist It's the Perks,
Darling!: Five Cool Things About Being a Bitch for Female Dominants The
Five Worst Things About Being a Heterosexual Male Dominant Psychological
Dominance Six Easy Ways to Relax Your Submissive What's So Funny About
Kinky Sex? A Few Tips to Spice Up Your Psychodrama It's the Perks,
Darling!: Five Fun Things About Being a Bastard for Male Dominants
CHAPTER TWELVE:
The View from the Bottom: Sexual Submissives
The Submissive Stigma Slave, Submissive, Masochist, or Bottom? If I'm a
Slave, Do I Live in a Cage? Are You Being Abused? Public Etiquette for
Submissives The Uncollared Sub Finding a Ringmaster in a World of
Clowns Ten Stupid Things That Femsubs Do to Screw Up Their Lives Signs
That the Dom Is Dangerous Sweet Services to Please a Dominant In Search
of HER To See or Not to See (A Prodom)
CHAPTER THIRTEEN:
Kinky Facts, Follies, and Fun
Reviewing the Rules Data to Digest Four Kinky Types to Watch Out For
Twenty High-Culture Kink Classics Games Kinky Lovers Can Play: Twisted
Torturous Trivia Quiz Kinky Reading List
APPENDIX:
Speaking the Kinky Lingo
A Glossary of Scene Slang
INDEX