REGIER

Conflict Without Casualties

A Field Guide for Leading with Compassionate Accountability

• Broschiertes Buch

Produktbeschreibung

Make Conflict Your Partner for Positive Change! Clinical psychologist and transformative communication expert Dr. Nate Regier believes that the biggest energy crisis facing our world is the misuse of conflict. Most organizations are terrified of conflict, seeing it as a sign of trouble. But conflict isn't the problem, says Regier. It's all about how we use the energy. When people misuse conflict energy, it becomes drama: they struggle against themselves or each other to feel justified about their negative behavior. The cost to companies, teams, and relationships is staggering. The alternative, says Regier, is compassionate accountability: struggling with others through conflict. Discover the Compassion Cycle, an elegant model for balancing empathy, care, and transparency with boundaries, goals, and standards. Provocative, illuminating, and highly practical, this book helps us avoid the casualties of conflict through openness, resourcefulness, and persistence.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: Berrett-Koehler Publishers
• 2 ed
• Seitenzahl: 224
• Erscheinungstermin: 24. April 2017
• Englisch
• Abmessung: 228mm x 151mm x 17mm
• Gewicht: 354g
• ISBN-13: 9781523082605
• ISBN-10: 1523082607
• Artikelnr.: 45718615

Autorenporträt

Nate Regier, PhD

Inhaltsangabe

Contents
Acknowledgments ix
Introduction 1
PART 1 CONFLICT WITH CASUALTIES: DRAMA IS KILLING US 7
Chapter 1 Conflict:
The Big Bang of Communication 9
Chapter 2 Drama:
Misusing the Energy of Conflict 13
Chapter 3 But I’m Just Trying to Help!:
Good Intentions, Unintended Consequences 33
PART 2 A FRAMEWORK FOR POSITIVE CONFLICT: COMPASSIONATE ACCOUNTABILITY
CAN CHANGE THE WORLD 45
Chapter 4 Compassion: Not for the Faint of Heart 47
Chapter 5 Compassion and the Cycles of Human Civilization: Will We Get It
Right This Time? 75
PART 3 CONFLICT WITHOUT CASUALTIES USER MANUAL: PUTTING NEXT ELEMENT’S
COMPASSION CYCLE TO WORK 87
Chapter 6 Violators Will Be Prosecuted: Three Rules of the Compassion
Cycle 89
Chapter 7 Warning! Drama Approaching!: Three Leading Indicators 103
Chapter 8 It’s All about Choices: Three Choices to Move 111
Chapter 9 Coaching Accountability When There’s No Drama: Match and Move
129
Chapter 10 The Formula for Compassionate Conflict: Confronting Drama with
Compassionate Accountability 147
Chapter 11 Conflict without Casualties: Preparing to Struggle with 163
Appendix A Personal Development Guide 181
Appendix B Preparing for Conflict: Building My ORPO Bank 191
Notes 195
Glossary of Terms and Phrases 197
Index 201
About the Author 207