Since live in urban community at times isn't easy you will be required to farm and hunt to survive on our own. Self-sufficiency is the difference; it's now more about thriving as a man than just surviving. These days we can gain self-sufficiency by doing things like, being open-minded to various cultures, subjects, views, and people. The more things you experience and the more subjects you disuses and compare to your present struggle, the more situations you can handle. Seek valuable skills that will make you an asset to employers and your communities. Fear is probably the biggest obstacle for most people. It keeps us from success, keeps us from getting what we need, and it keeps us dependent on other people. I can now understand why so many young men has turnout to do exactly what their fathers did with their lives. You may be thinking that it's easy for me to say this because all you had to inspire is to becoming a drinker, drug user, and abusive. But besides this, some fatherswho did not learn trade did work in the construction and odd jobs and their children are fighting to do the same. That's a common career that their sons decide to pursue because their fathers did same.