In this book, Shay_Marjanae walks you through her life as an ordinary girl who pressed on to become extraordinary by her own definition. In Loss, Pain, and Finding Peace, you will find yourself in some of the pages. The book follows Shay from the tender age of two years old up to age 42. Some wonder how she still smiles. Some wonder how she didn't lose her mind. If someone would have told her 20 years ago that she would live the life that she currently lives, she would have told them that there was no way. There was a time she saw no way out, but GOD! He never left her, even when she thought He wasn't there. As she walks through the journey of her life, she realizes God was always there. There is a saying that God sometimes calms the storm, but sometimes God allows the storm to rage to calm His child. He knew what she needed, and as unfair as it seemed to be, it aligned her with her destiny.