Our research is an analytical approach from the philosophy of how the patriarchal system in the past denied the condition of person to our childhood, so our goal is to analyze the process of denial, especially against the girl child, thus generating what we have related to the lost illusions, as it is a process that was determining the submissive woman, the woman-product, which ideologically is what the consumer society has produced and determined in the present, ie the condition of the human being as a product.