The love is by essence an experience of search of oneself and to exchange with another considered as an ideal... Love to which the psychoanalysts hasten to understand the intimate which is revealed by the choice in love. The experience of the love illustrates the passage of the normality has the abnormality. It builds a symptom through a transference, it subjects the lover to the unexpected and sometimes to an unexpected claim of the other and in times a chronic suffering and source of alienation. The love will be able to be the hatching of an exit of a depression. This choice changes with the psychic maturity. The meaning of love can be illusory, identical, the savior, the repairer, it can be a means towards the discovery of the otherness. Love translates the dark part of the psyche which is the unconscious and without forgetting the psycho-pathological forms of love.