Bernard Oâ Shea is a lucky man. He owes his life to his long-suffering wife. She has nicknamed him â The Feckinâ Eejitâ because of the ongoing crises he puts her and their three children through almost every day. This is a hilarious account of the trials and tribulations of family life, made all the harder when youâ re married to a â Feckinâ Eejitâ .