This book is written in the spirit of a pastoral heart and experience that the author has undergone through. The church needs among other things love, patience and motivations. this can only be achieved when church clergy and laity workers realize the importance of assisting the believers to achieve their dreams. Examples in this book enhance the principles for empirical emulation. The language therein is simplified for all levels of pastoral leadership to understand and easily put the principles into practice. Many have written on counseling; but this particular book focuses on cultures in Africa and the relevancy on counseling modeling. The styles employed in this book shows that there is need to assist the needy parishioners to step forward for themselves to love themselves, assist themselves and to believe in themselves. This will help them to appreciate others for God's glory. In so doing ungodliness will be subjugated by Christian principles for the sake of masking Godliness. it is also a book that will assist teachers, lecturers and leaders of Para-church organizations to help their followers realize what God intended for His people to measure to. Read it and embrace it.