When we experience a great loss, our despair can be so intense that we get stuck, oftentimes facing backwards, reliving painful experiences that may leave us feeling stranded in the past. We can find ourselves living day-to-day on autopilot, going through the motions, while in the back of our minds we might think we don't deserve to be happy anymore. When we try to look at the future, whatever plans we had made prior to our loss now seem impossible to achieve. If this sounds familiar, Time Perspective Therapy (TPT) is designed to help; it provides simple tools to turn your perspective from…mehr
When we experience a great loss, our despair can be so intense that we get stuck, oftentimes facing backwards, reliving painful experiences that may leave us feeling stranded in the past. We can find ourselves living day-to-day on autopilot, going through the motions, while in the back of our minds we might think we don't deserve to be happy anymore. When we try to look at the future, whatever plans we had made prior to our loss now seem impossible to achieve. If this sounds familiar, Time Perspective Therapy (TPT) is designed to help; it provides simple tools to turn your perspective from dark to light, from negative to positive. This book dives deep into the many facets of grief: from depression and caregiver stress to reestablishing relationships that may have fallen to the wayside and making plans for your new and different future. Through real-life intimate stories of those who have suffered loss and grown from the experience, and easy-to-do exercises, it is designed to help you learn how TPT can help you cherish the past, enjoy the present, move toward a new and brighter future, and live a fulfilling, meaningful life.Hinweis: Dieser Artikel kann nur an eine deutsche Lieferadresse ausgeliefert werden.
Rosemary K.M. Sword is codeveloper of Time Perspective Therapy and lead/coauthor of numerous TPT-related books and articles as well as a popular PsychologyToday.com blog. She lives in Kula, Hawaii.
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Table of Contents Acknowledgments Introduction One. Grief, Loss, and Time Perspective Therapy The Difference Between Grief, Mourning, and Loss 8 delete deleteThe Difference Between Loneliness and Being Alone 10 delete deleteBut What Is Grief? 10 delete deleteWhat Is "Normal" or "Common" Grief? 11 delete deleteHow Long Will I Mourn? 12 delete deleteMany Kinds of Grief 12 delete deleteIs Depression a Part of Grief? 15 delete deleteIs Anxiety a Part of Grief? 17 delete deleteIs Stress a Part of Grief? 19 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 1 20 delete deleteThe Elephant in the Room 22 delete deleteThe Unkindest Things to Say to a Mourner 23 delete deleteWhat If I Need Help? 27 delete deleteTake This Quiz 28 delete deleteZimbardo Time Perspective Inventory (ZTPI) Short Form 29 delete deleteFive Main Time Perspectives in Time Perspective Therapy 31 delete deleteA Balanced Time Perspective Leads to Greater Stability 31 delete deletePositive Effects 32 delete deleteTo Sum Up 33 Two. The Past The Genesis of Dying and Grief Research 38 delete deleteRick and Rose: How We Found Out Rick Was Dying 39 delete deleteKübler-Ross's Five Stages of Grief 40 delete deleteNew Research 42 delete deleteBias Toward the Past 43 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 2 44 delete deleteSimilarities Between Grief and Post-traumatic Stress 46 delete deleteChanging Past Negatives into Past Positives 51 delete deleteNoelle 52 delete deleteNoelle's Journey from Past Negative to Past Positive 56 delete deleteLet's Get Started 58 delete deleteBuilding Your Treasure Chest of Past Positive Memories 58 delete deleteTake a Breath 59 delete deleteGood Memories 60 delete deleteA Good Night's Sleep 61 delete deleteTo Sum Up 66 Three. The Present Caregivers 72 delete deleteCaregiver Stress 73 delete deleteRick and Rose: Circle of Support 74 delete deleteHelp for Caregiver Stress 76 delete deleteHospice Care 78 delete deleteRick and Rose: Everything Everywhere All at Once 79 delete deleteThe Vultures in the Room 81 delete deleteCrash Course in Narcissistic Personality Symptoms 82 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 3 83 delete deleteParents, Children, Narcissists 85 delete deleteThe Importance of Wills 87 delete deleteRick and Rose: The End of Physicality 88 delete deleteBias Toward the Present 90 delete deleteTemporary Present Fatalism 91 delete deleteNoelle's Journey from Present Fatalism to Present Hedonism 94 delete deleteLet's Get Started 95 delete deleteBe Kind to Yourself 96 delete deleteBe Here Now 99 delete deleteReconnect 100 delete deleteFlip the Switch and Then Go Random 101 delete deleteTo Sum Up 102 Four. The Future The Importance of Nature 108 delete deleteMusic and Grief 110 delete deleteRose: Facing the Future 112 delete deleteWhen Life Feels Out of Control 115 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 4 117 delete deleteMaking Things Right 121 delete deleteHo'oponoponö122 delete deleteBias Toward the Future 124 delete deleteNoelle's Journey into Her Brighter Future 126 delete deleteLet's Get Started 128 delete deleteOur Brighter-and Different-Future 129 delete deleteSetting Goals 131 delete deleteLooking Forward 132 delete deleteA Good Night's Sleep Revisited 134 delete deleteLiving a Life of Happiness and Meaning 136 delete deleteTo Sum Up 141 Epilogue Glossary Appendix I. ZTPI Questionnaire (Long Form) Appendix II. Core Values Appendix III. Character Strengths Resources Index
Table of Contents Acknowledgments Introduction One. Grief, Loss, and Time Perspective Therapy The Difference Between Grief, Mourning, and Loss 8 delete deleteThe Difference Between Loneliness and Being Alone 10 delete deleteBut What Is Grief? 10 delete deleteWhat Is "Normal" or "Common" Grief? 11 delete deleteHow Long Will I Mourn? 12 delete deleteMany Kinds of Grief 12 delete deleteIs Depression a Part of Grief? 15 delete deleteIs Anxiety a Part of Grief? 17 delete deleteIs Stress a Part of Grief? 19 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 1 20 delete deleteThe Elephant in the Room 22 delete deleteThe Unkindest Things to Say to a Mourner 23 delete deleteWhat If I Need Help? 27 delete deleteTake This Quiz 28 delete deleteZimbardo Time Perspective Inventory (ZTPI) Short Form 29 delete deleteFive Main Time Perspectives in Time Perspective Therapy 31 delete deleteA Balanced Time Perspective Leads to Greater Stability 31 delete deletePositive Effects 32 delete deleteTo Sum Up 33 Two. The Past The Genesis of Dying and Grief Research 38 delete deleteRick and Rose: How We Found Out Rick Was Dying 39 delete deleteKübler-Ross's Five Stages of Grief 40 delete deleteNew Research 42 delete deleteBias Toward the Past 43 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 2 44 delete deleteSimilarities Between Grief and Post-traumatic Stress 46 delete deleteChanging Past Negatives into Past Positives 51 delete deleteNoelle 52 delete deleteNoelle's Journey from Past Negative to Past Positive 56 delete deleteLet's Get Started 58 delete deleteBuilding Your Treasure Chest of Past Positive Memories 58 delete deleteTake a Breath 59 delete deleteGood Memories 60 delete deleteA Good Night's Sleep 61 delete deleteTo Sum Up 66 Three. The Present Caregivers 72 delete deleteCaregiver Stress 73 delete deleteRick and Rose: Circle of Support 74 delete deleteHelp for Caregiver Stress 76 delete deleteHospice Care 78 delete deleteRick and Rose: Everything Everywhere All at Once 79 delete deleteThe Vultures in the Room 81 delete deleteCrash Course in Narcissistic Personality Symptoms 82 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 3 83 delete deleteParents, Children, Narcissists 85 delete deleteThe Importance of Wills 87 delete deleteRick and Rose: The End of Physicality 88 delete deleteBias Toward the Present 90 delete deleteTemporary Present Fatalism 91 delete deleteNoelle's Journey from Present Fatalism to Present Hedonism 94 delete deleteLet's Get Started 95 delete deleteBe Kind to Yourself 96 delete deleteBe Here Now 99 delete deleteReconnect 100 delete deleteFlip the Switch and Then Go Random 101 delete deleteTo Sum Up 102 Four. The Future The Importance of Nature 108 delete deleteMusic and Grief 110 delete deleteRose: Facing the Future 112 delete deleteWhen Life Feels Out of Control 115 delete deleteReligions and Spiritual Practices: How We Mourn-Part 4 117 delete deleteMaking Things Right 121 delete deleteHo'oponoponö122 delete deleteBias Toward the Future 124 delete deleteNoelle's Journey into Her Brighter Future 126 delete deleteLet's Get Started 128 delete deleteOur Brighter-and Different-Future 129 delete deleteSetting Goals 131 delete deleteLooking Forward 132 delete deleteA Good Night's Sleep Revisited 134 delete deleteLiving a Life of Happiness and Meaning 136 delete deleteTo Sum Up 141 Epilogue Glossary Appendix I. ZTPI Questionnaire (Long Form) Appendix II. Core Values Appendix III. Character Strengths Resources Index
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