Adults with siblings actually have two sets: the flesh-and-blood ones they grew up with, who have changed and aged together, and the ones who are a creation of their childhood perceptions, resentments, and idealizations about the original siblings. These siblings, like ghosts, are not visible; they never age. People carry them within, and, at varying times, are haunted by them. The ghosts have four components--frozen images, crystallized roles, unhealthy loyalty, and sibling transference--each of which has a unique effect on one's adult life and all may be transferred onto important adults in their love, work, and friendship lives.…mehr
Adults with siblings actually have two sets: the flesh-and-blood ones they grew up with, who have changed and aged together, and the ones who are a creation of their childhood perceptions, resentments, and idealizations about the original siblings. These siblings, like ghosts, are not visible; they never age. People carry them within, and, at varying times, are haunted by them. The ghosts have four components--frozen images, crystallized roles, unhealthy loyalty, and sibling transference--each of which has a unique effect on one's adult life and all may be transferred onto important adults in their love, work, and friendship lives.Hinweis: Dieser Artikel kann nur an eine deutsche Lieferadresse ausgeliefert werden.
Dr. Karen Gail Lewis has been a marriage and family therapist for more than 50 years. A sought-after speaker, workshop presenter, and author of numerous books and journal articles, she is the founder of Unique Retreats for Siblings (https://drkarengaillewis.com/sibling-retreats) and is a past recipient of the Washington, DC Rape Crisis Center's Visionary Award. She focuses on a wide range of relationships, including couples, single women, and adult siblings.
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Preface Acknowledgments Introduction Chapter One: The Ghosts: Two Sets of Siblings Chapter Two: Recognizing Sibling Ghosts in Your Clients' Treatment Chapter Three: Ghosts' Unconscious Sibling Messages Chapter Four: Ghosts Transferences in All Relationships, and into the Next Generation Chapter Five: Ghosts Complicate Dealing with Aging Parents Chapter Six: Treatment for Those Requesting Sibling Therapy Chapter Seven: Therapists' Feelings Chapter Eight: Intensive Weekends Retreats Chapter Nine: Clinical Tool Box for Exorcising Ghosts Appendix A: Case Studies 1. The Price of the Being the Favorite Child 2. Unhealthy Loyalty in Individual Therapy 3. Unhealthy Loyalty and Shifting Roles 4. Idealized Frozen Images and Misdirected PTSD 5. Sibling Transference in Friendship 6. Secrets Underlying Sibling Conflict 7. Sibling Messages about Getting Even 8. Healing from Sibling Sexual Abuse 9. QTIP: When to Pull Back 10. Re-Creating Parents Battles 11. Speaking to Each Person Individually While Together 12. Therapist's Use of Voice to Stop Bickering 13. Transgenerational Sibling Issues 14. Weekend Retreat for Sabrina and Siblings (from Ch. 2) Appendix B: Genograms Appendix C: Hourglass Pattern of Sibling Relationships
Preface Acknowledgments Introduction Chapter One: The Ghosts: Two Sets of Siblings Chapter Two: Recognizing Sibling Ghosts in Your Clients' Treatment Chapter Three: Ghosts' Unconscious Sibling Messages Chapter Four: Ghosts Transferences in All Relationships, and into the Next Generation Chapter Five: Ghosts Complicate Dealing with Aging Parents Chapter Six: Treatment for Those Requesting Sibling Therapy Chapter Seven: Therapists' Feelings Chapter Eight: Intensive Weekends Retreats Chapter Nine: Clinical Tool Box for Exorcising Ghosts Appendix A: Case Studies 1. The Price of the Being the Favorite Child 2. Unhealthy Loyalty in Individual Therapy 3. Unhealthy Loyalty and Shifting Roles 4. Idealized Frozen Images and Misdirected PTSD 5. Sibling Transference in Friendship 6. Secrets Underlying Sibling Conflict 7. Sibling Messages about Getting Even 8. Healing from Sibling Sexual Abuse 9. QTIP: When to Pull Back 10. Re-Creating Parents Battles 11. Speaking to Each Person Individually While Together 12. Therapist's Use of Voice to Stop Bickering 13. Transgenerational Sibling Issues 14. Weekend Retreat for Sabrina and Siblings (from Ch. 2) Appendix B: Genograms Appendix C: Hourglass Pattern of Sibling Relationships
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