Most people tend to run into marriage relationship without full knowledge about. You enter into a relationship with somebody you don't know about and in few days in marriage you begin to see some funny characters in that person. Its real good to know the kind of a person you want to get married to because marriage is a lifetime thing that ordained by God himself so it must be respected and to respect it you must be prepared for it so that you may not end up in Divorce or separation. Learn to about your partner, know their religious background, cultural backgrounds know more what they believe, know their like and dislike before proceeding into serious relationship that leads to marriage, Today we have a lot of broken marriages as a result of getting into marriage relationship without full knowledge about it. Seek to know what is marriage and how it look like what are the responsibilities of marriage before proceeding and by following this steps you will have healthy marriages. Though each Union has its own problems but you will be able to know how to handle your issue yourselves.