The title of this work is an invitation to a systemic analysis of the vision that shapes us as humans. The author refers that tenacious, continuous, intense and relentless efforts are required to re-think the present, replacing the perception of past events with updated perceptions. How is it that on many occasions situations arise that require a solution, and how is it that from this apparent "simple action" unforeseen circumstances emerge that can cause alterations and emotional changes that make it difficult to adequately perceive our reality? The approach of the work affirms that we would not be the same if we had not been formed by those who educated us, since the construction of our reality is based on the sense of belonging that keeps us attached to people or circumstances.