"The trouble with the rat race is that, even if you win, you're still a rat" ~ Lily Tomlin ~ There was a time, in the not-so-distant past, when families were expected to give up everything to achieve the financial security they craved. Perhaps you remember those decades, perhaps you are too young to recall those times. Those were the days when climbing the corporate ladder was a revered activity, and wives and children gazed fondly at pictures of the breadwinner to remember whether poor, exhausted Dad had blue eyes or brown. Large companies moved employees from one city to another, like pawns on a chessboard and, if you had any hope of climbing the ladder toward upper management positions, you packed up the wife and kids and moved on from Chicago to Boston, to New York, to Tokyo.