The institution of the family is the smallest unit in the set of institutions of the society in terms of size, but in terms of credibility and effectiveness, it is the highest and greatest social institution, and without a doubt, the basis of transformation starts from the family, and it is a very simple idea to put all the heavy burden of education on the shoulders of the school. Let's ignore the role of the family and the basic functions of this holy institution. The children and teenagers of our country are facing mental and emotional problems and most of these pressures are related to the family and parents and their relationships with each other and the children and it is these families who are the best solvers of their children's problems in this field and with the right insight and understanding who can help their children in the direction of success and accurate knowledge and have the power to understand them and their problems.