This workbook is intended to be used in conjunction with the book Violent No More: Helping Men End Domestic Abuse, Third Edition. The exercises in the Violent No More Workbook are specifically designed to help men who batter understand, monitor, and stop their abusive and controlling behavior. Also included are exercises designed for couples who are working through basic relationship issues such as negotiating, communicating, compromising, and disagreeing without becoming abusive or controlling. Mental health counselors or facilitators in domestic abuse programs make the book Violent No More…mehr
This workbook is intended to be used in conjunction with the book Violent No More: Helping Men End Domestic Abuse, Third Edition. The exercises in the Violent No More Workbook are specifically designed to help men who batter understand, monitor, and stop their abusive and controlling behavior. Also included are exercises designed for couples who are working through basic relationship issues such as negotiating, communicating, compromising, and disagreeing without becoming abusive or controlling. Mental health counselors or facilitators in domestic abuse programs make the book Violent No More and the Violent No More Workbook available to men in their domestic abuse groups or the clients they are seeing on an individual basis. Some programs provide the book and workbook to participants as part of their fee; others require participants to purchase the book and workbook, or contribute to the cost. The Violent No More Workbook is an easy to use, step-by-step process that is written directly to men. Men who batter can change if they have the courage and motivation to change. The exercises in this workbook will help them on their journey.Hinweis: Dieser Artikel kann nur an eine deutsche Lieferadresse ausgeliefert werden.
Michael Paymar has lectured and trained, both nationally and internationally, on human rights and ending gender-based violence. He provides training and technical assistance to professionals in the criminal and civil justice system, law enforcement, and the military on how to end domestic violence. Paymar lives in Minneapolis, MN, where he serves in the U.S. House of Representatives. Anne Ganley lives in Seattle, WA.
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Foreword Preface Acknowledgments Introduction Why Write a Book for Men Who Batter? A Note to the Reader Chapter 1: A Challenge for Men Andy's Story Andy's Story Five Years Later The First Step: Owning the Problem The Next Step: Getting Help How to Use This Book Chapter 2: The Roots of Men's Violence against Women The Superman Myth How Our Culture Encourages Violence The Struggle for Equality What Men Expect from Relationships Chapter 3: The Origins of Abuse and Sexual Violence Cassie's Story Bernice's Story Women and Violence The Violence We Learn at Home The Violence We Learn from Society Why We Use Violence Sexual Violence The Impact of Violence on Sexual Relationships Chapter 4: It's More Than Just Physical Violence Jim's Story Using Intimidation to Control Using Threats Blocking Her Freedom to Decide Using the Children to Get to Her The Pain of Emotional Abuse Understanding and Stopping Battering Chapter 5: Getting Past Denial Sid's Story Taking Responsibility Minimizing Violence Self-Defense or Retaliation? Guidelines for Remaining Nonviolent Letting Go of Blame Alcohol, Drugs, and Violence Anger Chapter 6: Making Changes and Staying on Track Mark's Story Letting Go Taking Time-Outs Time-Out Rules Self-Talk: Learning to Think Positively Handling Jealousy The Danger of Obsession Chapter 7: Staying Together What Traps a Woman in an Abusive Relationship? The Switzers' Story It May Always Be a Struggle Understanding and Accepting Women's Anger Changing the Mind-Set Getting Your Needs Met without Being Abusive Chapter 8: Resolving Conflicts, Strengthening Relationships Elliot's Story New Relationships, Old Problems Egalitarian Relationships Sharing the Load The Issue of Money Expressing Feelings Learning to Negotiate and Compromise Negotiation Guide Fair Discussion Guide Developing a Personal Responsibility Program Chapter 9: Healing Dave's Story Dave's Story Five Years Later Support for Changing Men New Definitions of Masculinity Health and Balance 1 Dating: How Much of the Past Do We Reveal? Talking to Your Children about Your Violence Staying on Course: Your Lifelong Commitment Chapter 10: Veterans Coming Home Hector's Story Screening for Mental Health Problems Veteran's Courts Changing Military Culture Chapter 11: Creating Change in Groups Ron's Story Expectations of Counseling The Theory and Practice of Offender Programs The Duluth Curriculum: New Approaches How Well Does Counseling Work? The Principles of an Offender Program Intake, Orientation and Screening Partner Orientation and Safety Procedures Controversies in the Field Research: What Do We Know? Women that Use Violence in Relationships Chapter 12: Danger and Lethality Dale's Story from Prison Assessment Tools Chapter 13: Primary Prevention: The New Frontier Stopping Rape on College Campuses Reducing Demand for Violent Pornography Trafficking: Choices for Men Backlash: The War on Women Social Change
Foreword Preface Acknowledgments Introduction Why Write a Book for Men Who Batter? A Note to the Reader Chapter 1: A Challenge for Men Andy's Story Andy's Story Five Years Later The First Step: Owning the Problem The Next Step: Getting Help How to Use This Book Chapter 2: The Roots of Men's Violence against Women The Superman Myth How Our Culture Encourages Violence The Struggle for Equality What Men Expect from Relationships Chapter 3: The Origins of Abuse and Sexual Violence Cassie's Story Bernice's Story Women and Violence The Violence We Learn at Home The Violence We Learn from Society Why We Use Violence Sexual Violence The Impact of Violence on Sexual Relationships Chapter 4: It's More Than Just Physical Violence Jim's Story Using Intimidation to Control Using Threats Blocking Her Freedom to Decide Using the Children to Get to Her The Pain of Emotional Abuse Understanding and Stopping Battering Chapter 5: Getting Past Denial Sid's Story Taking Responsibility Minimizing Violence Self-Defense or Retaliation? Guidelines for Remaining Nonviolent Letting Go of Blame Alcohol, Drugs, and Violence Anger Chapter 6: Making Changes and Staying on Track Mark's Story Letting Go Taking Time-Outs Time-Out Rules Self-Talk: Learning to Think Positively Handling Jealousy The Danger of Obsession Chapter 7: Staying Together What Traps a Woman in an Abusive Relationship? The Switzers' Story It May Always Be a Struggle Understanding and Accepting Women's Anger Changing the Mind-Set Getting Your Needs Met without Being Abusive Chapter 8: Resolving Conflicts, Strengthening Relationships Elliot's Story New Relationships, Old Problems Egalitarian Relationships Sharing the Load The Issue of Money Expressing Feelings Learning to Negotiate and Compromise Negotiation Guide Fair Discussion Guide Developing a Personal Responsibility Program Chapter 9: Healing Dave's Story Dave's Story Five Years Later Support for Changing Men New Definitions of Masculinity Health and Balance 1 Dating: How Much of the Past Do We Reveal? Talking to Your Children about Your Violence Staying on Course: Your Lifelong Commitment Chapter 10: Veterans Coming Home Hector's Story Screening for Mental Health Problems Veteran's Courts Changing Military Culture Chapter 11: Creating Change in Groups Ron's Story Expectations of Counseling The Theory and Practice of Offender Programs The Duluth Curriculum: New Approaches How Well Does Counseling Work? The Principles of an Offender Program Intake, Orientation and Screening Partner Orientation and Safety Procedures Controversies in the Field Research: What Do We Know? Women that Use Violence in Relationships Chapter 12: Danger and Lethality Dale's Story from Prison Assessment Tools Chapter 13: Primary Prevention: The New Frontier Stopping Rape on College Campuses Reducing Demand for Violent Pornography Trafficking: Choices for Men Backlash: The War on Women Social Change
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