There are things which don't stand out so much.Especially when they are not there at all.This may sound a little stupid or rather complicated.It can be best explained by a simple example.A cute little story about being in love - but being alone just right now. The author muses about the absence of his loved one and what it does to himself, saying:When you're not around I feel somehow incomplete.When you're not around I am still around, of course.But I am deprived of an important task.I then feel so - out of commission.