This is life, not struggle. You live, not where you hurt yourself by worrying about what is not. Count your blessings and rejoice, not complain about what you don't have. When you walk in gratitude, anger and frustration have no place. As you embrace the goodness of life, your problems will gradually disappear. When you are free to think, live and do what you want, all around you will be peace and love. Unfortunately, we are the ones who make our lives difficult. We highlight the small gap. We see failure as death. Disapproval makes us think we're on the wrong path. We don't think we're right if everyone disagrees with us. We think that we will always live in loss and problems, that what we lost today will not be found tomorrow, that the temporary disappointment will always remain the same.