Someone you meet today could be wealthy now but broke in 10 years or they could be broke now and wealthy in 5 years. Never base emotional decisions based on temporary aspects. In life you have many choices you are faced with, some choices require very little effort and some require some brain power. Yes it's a scary road, it's a road that you don't have all the answers for but as long as you have faith you can conquer anything and achieve everything. Even a successful relationship with your dream guy or girl. To me the biggest achievement is to have a beautiful husband and lovey children. Until I have a family of my own I have achieved nothing.