As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Lynne knows there are many depths of abuse and each brings trauma to the mind, body, and soul. She gently and gracefully speaks to women like herself who "may have had a one-time experience they dismissed, or situations which they questioned as to whether or not they were abusive." Lynne encourages us to not downplay our experiences if they don't fit the exact definition of sexual abuse. For this reason, she uses the term sexual intrusion because it's more inclusive.
Lynne also understands how healing works. She states, "Although we will draw from various therapies, the most essential source of healing from sexual abuse is not rooted in technique, but in finding your identity in a relationship with Jesus." She says that "the goal of healing from sexual abuse is to move forward with a transformed heart, a new mind, and new ways of relating. Working towards this end results in newfound joy and freedom."
The book is divided into four sections. The first defines sexual abuse, barriers to healing, and addresses the need to mourn and grieve. The second looks at how Jesus treated women and the safe place he offers his beloved daughters in his family. Section three describes how Jesus' death and resurrection empowers us to a change and let go of unwanted behaviors and manage triggers. Lastly, Lynne shares how to live freely through forgiveness and transforming shame into closeness with Jesus. All this is followed by several appendices of tools, resources, and Lynne's and two fellow survivor's journaling poetry.
Unfolding offers to help you "recover your hope, restore your sense of safety, be empowered to change, and find deliverance from shame." Using her own journey as a guide, Lynne encourages us to apply the same tools and truths that set her free. Her book is part memoir, part instruction manual for any who desire to be free of shame, PTSD, anxiety, anger, confusion around men, and any other lingering effects of sexual intrusion. I love how she weaves practical ways to reflect and take steps forward into her narrative.
This book can be the manual that accompanies your counseling or one you work through on your own. Any who mentor others or serve as pastoral staff, member care providers, or counselors can confidently pass this book along to those they serve.
"While my story is mostly free of this struggle (although Lynne did help me identify that I too experienced some small intrusions in my journey with sexuality), this book was helpful for me to understand what many women (and men) experience and how to find healing. " Eva Burkholder
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