This book is intended to help the terminally ill take charge of their life and to live the last part in the most fulfilling way possible. It is to help, in so far as is possible, to control the content and events of those last days. It is also intended to be a guide for the caregivers who walk with the terminally ill. The caregiver needs to help the patient discover what is possible. It is one thing to just accept what others want for you in your last opportunities. It is another wonderful possibility to take control and to experience some quality time as you chart your own course. Either choice will lead to the same end, but within limits, you can decide how to get there.