Learning How to Define Yourself is a self-help book & memoir written from the pages of the author's personal life. This book is the author's first book and this book references aspects of her personal growth. In the book, the writer shares many of her personal life experiences. The lessons learnt aim to assist the reader in understanding the importance of self-belief, discovering your own uniqueness's and understanding your worth, and your dreams; even when you are going through extreme life challenges. In this book, the writer passionately scripts support for those going through various emotional turmoils that may impact their life. The author refers to several life events which have shaped her growth, courage and understanding of herself and the world around her. Several chapters of the book offer hope to those suffering from grief and personal crisis. The writer shares her own intimate story providing insight into the different stages someone could experience when facing the devastation and challenge of losing a loved one. The author shares her heart-rendering pain of dealing with the aftermath of grief, also offering the reader some practical support, along with some tips on how to cope in these circumstances. The writer describes the many storms she has faced in her life and the circumstances which have personally impacted on her. These experiences serve to remind the reader that it is crucial to discover the beauty and power of self-discovery and self-belief.