Marie B. David

When Time-Outs Don't Work: The Case for Tougher Love in Modern Parenting (eBook, ePUB)

• Format: ePub

Produktbeschreibung

Parenting has evolved over the years, but one truth remainswhat works for one family doesn't always work for the next. Many parents have turned to time-outs, positive reinforcement, and "gentle" discipline as the gold standard for teaching their children right from wrong. However, for countless families, these techniques fall short. The reality is that today's children are often more exposed to stress, media, peer pressures, and societal expectations than ever before, making some of these traditional approaches seem inadequate in tackling their complex needs.

When Time-Outs Don't Work takes an honest look at why certain methods of discipline, especially time-outs, often fail to yield long-term results. While these techniques may work in the short term, they don't address the root cause of behavior. Too often, they simply teach children to avoid getting caught, rather than genuinely understanding the consequences of their actions. The true power of discipline lies not in isolating the child but in actively engaging with them, holding them accountable, and teaching them the tools they need to navigate the world responsibly.

David draws on years of research, psychological insight, and personal experience to present a bold new approach to parentingone that doesn't shy away from tough love but also nurtures a deep connection between parent and child. This book provides parents with a clear, practical guide to moving beyond time-outs and towards a method of discipline that empowers both the parent and child. David argues that discipline is not just about enforcing rules but about instilling values, emotional intelligence, and resilience.

The book explores how many traditional methods, while well-meaning, have led to an increase in disengagement, disrespect, and anxiety in children. By adhering strictly to time-outs or overly permissive techniques, parents unknowingly risk neglecting the underlying emotional and developmental needs of their children. David presents the case that the idea of "tough love" is not about being harsh, but about being firm, clear, and loving in ways that foster respect and growth.

One of the key ideas David discusses is the difference between love and discipline. In many modern parenting styles, these two concepts are treated as opposites. Yet, David argues, love and discipline can work in tandem to create a balanced approach that is both compassionate and firm. The book guides parents through the steps of implementing discipline that is rooted in respect, accountability, and trustshowing that discipline is, in fact, an act of love when it is done correctly.

David also addresses the fear that many parents have about being "too strict" or "too tough." She dismantles the myth that firm boundaries and tough love create hostile environments or cause children to feel unloved. Instead, she demonstrates how children thrive when they know what is expected of them and feel secure in the love of a parent who is actively involved in their upbringing.

For parents who feel overwhelmed by modern parenting challenges, When Time-Outs Don't Work offers actionable strategies for building stronger, more resilient relationships with their children. David gives readers the tools they need to regain control in their parenting journey, from establishing a strong foundation of respect to implementing techniques for managing defiance, impulsivity, and other difficult behaviors.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: M. Sweet
• Erscheinungstermin: 10. Februar 2025
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9798230322993
• Artikelnr.: 73315784